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2 My Favorite Scary Books

  • October 31, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Blog · Books

In celebration of Halloween, a list of my top ten favorite scary books.

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1. Let the Right One In, John Ajvide Lindqvist
2. Pet Sematary, Stephen King
3. People Who Eat Darkness (nonfiction), Richard Lloyd Parry
4. The Exorcist, William Peter Batty
5. In Cold Blood (nonfiction), Truman Capote
6. The Girl Who Loved Tom Gordon, Stephen King
7. Helter Skelter (nonfiction), Vincent Bugliosi
8. Misery, Stephen King
9. Rosemary’s Baby, Ira Levin
10. The Witching Hour, Anne Rice

The first three books on the list are the ones that scared me the most. I read John Lindqvist’s Let the Right One In while traveling alone in Chicago. I had to wait until I got home to finish it because it was too scary to read alone in my hotel room at night. I read Stephen King’s Pet Sematary in 1983 when my husband and I were first married. He was away—I don’t remember where—on military travel. I was staying at my parents’ house. I finished reading the book around 2 a.m. and I was too scared to get out of bed to turn out the light. So I called out for my mom (I was 21 years old at the time), and she climbed into bed with me. One of the reasons People Who Eat Darkness is so damn scary is because it’s true crime—and we all know that truth is not only stranger than fiction, it’s a helluva lot scarier sometimes too.

I loved Anne Rice’s Vampire Chronicles but those books didn’t scare me as much as the ones in my top ten list. I also loved Stephen King’s The Shining but again, it didn’t scare me as much as the others.

Some scary books on my TBR list: Frankenstein by Mary Shelley, Bram Stoker’s Dracula, Bird Box by Josh Malerman, and The Shining Girls by Lauren Beukes.

What are your favorite scary books?

Nan's favorite scary books

copyright © 2014 Nan McCarthy

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2 For Those Who Make Art

  • May 22, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Blog · Family · Parenting

(In this season of graduations, here’s a piece I wrote two years ago reflecting on our older son’s graduation from art school. It originally appeared in May 2012 in the Kansas City Star.)

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Sitting in a darkened auditorium at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago that blazing August morning back in 2008, I listened, enchanted by the speaker at the podium, whose words etched themselves in my memory. The occasion was new-student orientation, and my son, about to begin his freshman year at SAIC, sat next to me, doodling in his program. The speaker, Tony Jones, chancellor and former president of the School, said a lot of funny things in his introductory remarks, including the obligatory jokes about Chicago winters. He may not have had my son’s full attention at the start, but when he got down to talking about artists and art, Jones really captured his audience of nascent artists and anxious parents.

Jones talked about the type of student who goes to art school. He said if you choose to study art because you like art better than any other subject, or if you choose to study art because you’re good at it, then you shouldn’t be at art school. He went on to say that if you choose to attend art school for any reason, you shouldn’t be there. As Jones put it, the only reason to pursue art in college is when you can’t imagine yourself doing anything but art.

The other thing Jones pointed out is that, in today’s world, it takes a lot of courage to be an artist. We live in a society that places a lot of importance on college majors like science and business. Not that we shouldn’t place a high value on these areas of study (our younger son is a biomedical engineering student who will no doubt make his own great contributions to the universe). But the emphasis on math and science comes at a cost. A young person who wishes to pursue art is often discouraged from doing so by parents and other well-meaning adults. As parents of an art major, our conversations with other parents often go something like this:

Your son goes to art school? What’s he going to do—teach?

No, he wants to be a studio artist.

Yes, but what does he want to do?

He wants to make art.

OK. But what’s his real job going to be?

You get the idea. If we as parents find it challenging (or amusing, depending on your mood that day) to explain our students’ vocation, imagine how they must feel. That’s why Jones said it takes a lot of courage to be an artist. Art is hard. Not just a hard way to make a living, but hard in the way of finding one’s place, both in the art world and in the world at large. And no one puts himself out there quite like an artist does. Imagine taking a piece of yourself and putting it on display for others to see and comment on, day after day. Artists find strength in vulnerability. Artists are makers. They make something from nothing. How many of us can claim the ability to do that?

I won’t bore you with why I think art and the makers of art are vital to human existence, other than to say, what a humdrum world it would be without art! Suffice to say, four years and countless sleepless nights since that August morning in 2008, our son is now preparing to graduate. Not all of the students have made it this far. Of those who have, many have fought hard to get to this point—our son included. I can’t wait to see him walk across the stage. When he does, I’ll not only be filled with pride for his accomplishments, but with admiration for his courage.

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copyright © 2012 Nan McCarthy

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1 To My Sons: What I Would Like for Mother’s Day

  • May 7, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Blog · Family · Parenting

This piece was originally published in May 2013 as a Facebook Note. I’m wishing a Happy Mother’s Day to all my friends and family. I know Mother’s Day can be a sad day for many of us—a time when we miss our mothers who are no longer here, when we grieve children who left us too soon, when fractured relationships make it hard to feel celebratory. So grab whatever happiness you can find and treat yourself with kindness this Mother’s Day. We’re all just doing the best we can, right? —Nan

 

To My Sons: What I Would Like for Mother’s Day
Nan McCarthy

I want you to have good hearts and be kind to others.

I want you to be independent, self-motivated, and self-sufficient.

I want you to love yourself, but never stop trying to be a better person.

I want you to love each other, and be there for each other when I’m gone.

I want you to be honest with yourself and others.

I want you to be true to yourself even if some people would rather you not.

I want you to feel love and be loved and love freely, even though that means you’ll probably be hurt sometimes.

I want you to be lifelong learners.

I want you to read a lot.

I want you to do what you say you’re going to do.

If you screw up, I want you to own it, apologize, and try to do better next time.

I want you to treat others with respect, and demand to be treated with respect in return.

I want you to put others before yourself sometimes.

I want you to know life is not fair, but keep being optimistic.

I want you to be able to keep your sense of humor even in the dark times—especially during the dark times.

I want you to work hard, work before you play, and when you do play, enjoy yourself (as long as your work is done first).

I want you to be curious about others—genuinely curious.

I want you to know you don’t know everything.

I want you to choose happiness, and understand that you have to keep choosing happiness over and over again, every morning you wake up.

I want you to do what you love. Sometimes that’s not what you imagined it would be, so you have to stay open to new possibilities.

I want you to be grateful for simple things, like a good night’s sleep, a walk outdoors, food in your tummy, warmth when it’s cold outside, and a soft clean pillow on which to lay your head at night.

I want you to keep your word.

I want you to be able to forgive others and never leave room in your heart for hate.

I want you to know I would give anything for your happiness, including my life.

I want you to remember I was once young just like you, that I had hopes and dreams just like you, and that you’re never too old to dream—because if I can keep dreaming, so can you.

I want you to know the value of hope. Hope is everything.

I want you to remember things always seem worse in the middle of the night. It will be better in the morning, I promise.

I want you to think of me as a whole human being who has feelings just like you, but also know that I’ll never stop being your mom, and there’s no one on this earth who believes in you more than me.

p.s. A homemade card with a handwritten note would also be nice.

copyright © 2013 Nan McCarthy

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5 New ebook editions of Chat, Connect, Crash now available

  • April 28, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Books · Chat: book one · Connect: book two · Crash: book three · News

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New 2014 editions of Chat, Connect, & Crash are now available from Amazon, iTunes, Barnes & Noble, and Kobo.

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It’s been almost twenty years since I first wrote and self-published Chat in 1995. Now the books have come full circle and are once again self-published under the Rainwater Press imprint. One of the things I’m most excited about is the original ending to Crash—as it was written in 1997—has been restored. I’ve also added details to some key scenes and streamlined the message headers for a smoother and better reading experience. Another thing I’m excited about are the new covers by David High of High Design. David designed the original, self-published editions of the trilogy back in 1995, and I’m beyond delighted with his fresh, eye-popping designs for the new edition.

The books are currently available in ebook format. The year 2020 will mark the 25th anniversary of the Chat, Connect, & Crash series. By then I hope to be able to offer print versions of the books, along with a few other surprises. (I’ve also been working on a new novel completely unrelated to this series, scheduled for release at the end of 2017—stay tuned.) Meanwhile, click the links below for purchase information on the new editions of Chat, Connect, & Crash. And, as always, thank you for your support.

Click here to find online booksellers for Chat: book one.

Click here to find online booksellers for Connect: book two.

Click here to find online booksellers for Crash: book three.

Questions? Please use the contact form on this website to contact Nan.

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1 Buy: Chat (book 1)

  • April 28, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Books · Chat: book one · fiction · Shop

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This edition is currently only available in ebook format.

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1 Buy: Connect (book 2)

  • April 28, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Books · Connect: book two · fiction · Shop

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1 Buy: Crash (book 3)

  • April 28, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Books · Crash: book three · fiction · Shop

crash.100x154.smallCrash: Book Three by Nan McCarthy (Rainwater Press 2014 edition) is now available from these online booksellers:

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1 Buy: Live ’Til I Die

  • April 28, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · biography/memoir · Books · Live ’Til I Die · Shop

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Purchase instructions for Live ’Til I Die: a memoir of my father’s life by Nan McCarthy (Rainwater Press, 2001):

The print edition of Live ’Til I Die can be purchased directly from the author. Each copy is $14.95. Please add $5 shipping & handling for one book and $7 shipping & handling for two books. For larger quantities or for the “Friends & Family” discount, please use the Contact form on this website to inquire about pricing.

 

One copy Live ’Til I Die ($14.95) + $5 shipping & handling = $19.95.

Two copies Live ’Til I Die ($29.90) + $7 shipping & handling = $36.90.

Please make checks payable to Nan McCarthy and mail to:

Please contact the author using the contact form here for mailing information.

Please make sure to include your mailing address along with your email address in case I need to contact you.  Also let me know if you want your book(s) signed. You should receive your book(s) in 7-10 days from the date I receive your check.

This edition is currently only available in print format. Please follow this blog for news and availability of an ebook version.

Thank you for your interest in my books!

Nan McCarthy

 

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3 Chat: book one

  • March 25, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Books · Chat: book one · fiction · Titles

Chat: book one
Nan McCarthy
(Rainwater Press, 2014) 132 pages

In the days before Facebook, Skype, and Twitter…

Two strangers begin a conversation online. It’s 1995, and the Internet is new and uncharted territory. No status updates, no photos, no tweets, no video chats. All they have to share with one another are their words.

Max, a restless advertising copywriter who’s new to the online world, boldly strikes up an email conversation with Bev, a tough-minded book editor who’s been online since the ’80s. With charm, wit, and persistence, Max chips away at Bev’s reluctant façade until the two are sharing secrets they wouldn’t dream of telling anyone in “real life.”

Hailed as “Silicon Valley’s Story of O,” the story of Bev and Max’s relationship gradually becomes more intense, unfolding entirely through their online messages. Since Chat’s first publication in 1995, readers have found themselves unable to resist the temptation to “eavesdrop” on Bev and Max’s increasingly intimate correspondence as she slowly opens up to him and he becomes more fascinated by her.

This newest edition of the acclaimed Chat, Connect, and Crash series offers a snapshot of the emerging technology and online culture of the 1990s, but the story of Bev and Max is—above all else—entertaining, compelling, and timeless.

 

critical praise for the original chat, connect, crash series:

“This is Chekhov for the ’90s: lust, romance, and adultery, cyber-style.” — Mademoiselle

“Silicon Valley’s Story of O. From the first page, we’re hooked.” — House Organ: A Magazine of the Arts

“Draws you from page to page. Sequels are on the way, and I can hardly wait.” — The New York Times

“You won’t need a modem to appreciate the charm of this virtual romance.” — Glamour

“[Bev and Max’s] mingling is electric.” — Washington Post Book World

“A hip look at the Internet cyberculture and how it has changed the dynamic of present-day relationships.” — The Review Zone

“Fully drawn, believable characters. There’s a very warm body at the end of each cold computer connection.” — The Orange County Register

“A lively, free-flowing, spontaneous outburst of curiosity, anxiety and hope.” — Syracuse Herald-American

“A love story that is completely modern, full of passion, wit and fun.” — Central PA Magazine

“[McCarthy] gives the headstrong-girl-meets-self-sufficient-boy story a refreshing twist.” — Publishers Weekly

“So authentic—down to the convoluted stumbling that takes place in cyber-relationships—that it’s unexpectedly entertaining.” — St. Louis Post Dispatch

“McCarthy has brought 18th-century epistolary novels into modern times.” — Atlanta Journal Constitution

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2 Connect: book two

  • March 25, 2014
  • by Nan McCarthy
  • · Books · Connect: book two · fiction · Titles

Connect: book two
Nan McCarthy
(Rainwater Press, 2014) 132 pages

The story of Bev and Max continues…

In the second novel of her acclaimed series, author Nan McCarthy continues the wild ride that began in Chat. It’s now 1996, and Bev and Max, two strangers who met online, find their lives unexpectedly intertwined. As their words and actions propel them into unexplored territory, Bev and Max’s relationship grows more intense—and complex—than they ever imagined.

Praised as “a lively, free-flowing, spontaneous outburst of curiosity, anxiety and hope,” the story of Bev and Max unfolds entirely through their online messages. Readers once again find themselves unable to resist the temptation to “eavesdrop” on the pair’s sexually charged, humorous, and thought-provoking exchanges. In a time before Facebook, Skype, and Twitter, when there were no status updates, no photos, no tweets, no video chats, all Bev and Max have to share with one another are their words—or so it may seem.

In this newest edition of her Chat, Connect, and Crash series, McCarthy offers up a snapshot of the mid-1990s Internet culture and its changing dynamic of human interaction. As Bev and Max gradually reveal themselves by what they choose to say—and leave unsaid—their seductive, addicting, and all-too-human adventures will draw you from first page to last.

 

critical praise for the original chat, connect, crash series:

“This is Chekhov for the ’90s: lust, romance, and adultery, cyber-style.” — Mademoiselle

“Silicon Valley’s Story of O. From the first page, we’re hooked.” — House Organ: A Magazine of the Arts

“Draws you from page to page. Sequels are on the way, and I can hardly wait.” — The New York Times

“You won’t need a modem to appreciate the charm of this virtual romance.” — Glamour

“[Bev and Max’s] mingling is electric.” — Washington Post Book World

“A hip look at the Internet cyberculture and how it has changed the dynamic of present-day relationships.” — The Review Zone

“Fully drawn, believable characters. There’s a very warm body at the end of each cold computer connection.” — The Orange County Register

“A lively, free-flowing, spontaneous outburst of curiosity, anxiety and hope.” — Syracuse Herald-American

“A love story that is completely modern, full of passion, wit and fun.” — Central PA Magazine

“[McCarthy] gives the headstrong-girl-meets-self-sufficient-boy story a refreshing twist.” — Publishers Weekly

“So authentic—down to the convoluted stumbling that takes place in cyber-relationships—that it’s unexpectedly entertaining.” — St. Louis Post Dispatch

“McCarthy has brought 18th-century epistolary novels into modern times.” — Atlanta Journal Constitution

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